Making moves to improve your life are always so uncomfortable and unstable. 
One of my friend’s said it’s like walking in some really tall heels for the first time. 
You are gonna stumble and be wobbly but if you keep at it you’ll be runway walking. 
It’s the same concept with your life. 
Making these changes might be uncomfortable and even embarrassing if you don’t get the feedback you think you deserve BUT everyone has to start somewhere. 
These steps will eventually add up you just have to bite the bullet and do the damn thing.